is it alright to be jealous?

what is the answer?
is it alright to feel guilty for
looking at the opposite sex with
a little tinge of guilt?


an even more pressing question....
is it alright for a girl who is not your
girlfriend openly and quite publicly I
might add to profess a "crush", or attraction, to you?

I'm not the jealous type... I've usually given
men the benefit of the doubt.
but now I have to wonder...
how many times does the bait have
to be set for
a man to bite?

and is it really his fault?
I mean its there...
a desire....
an attraction....
its difficult to ignore.
What is a six month relationship to a
multiple year friendship with a
beautiful girl who finally shows you interest?
what is love now at this very moment to the unknown possibility of bliss everlasting?
or for that matter a tirade of painful misery, regret, and hope lost?

Is it alright to leave when something better may be out there?
Is it alright to be alone on a saturday night watching your fish waiting for a promised call that never comes?